The Thinking Believer

WHEN LOVE IS NEAR BUT THE HEART IS FAR: HOW WE HINDER OURSELVES FROM GOD’S LOVE By Otun Stephen Gbenga | Philosopher & Theologian God’s love is one of the most comforting truths in Scripture. It is vast, unchanging, and eternal. The psalmist declares, “His steadfast love endures forever.” Paul proclaims that nothing can separate us from that love. Yet, as comforting as this truth is, many believers still find themselves living as though God’s love is distant, blocked, or withheld. This raises an honest and necessary question: If God loves us so deeply, are there ways we can hinder ourselves from enjoying that love? The answer is yes —not because God withdraws His love, but because we sometimes step out of alignment with the light He freely shines on us . The sun does not stop shining simply because someone hides in the shadows. In the same way, God’s love remains constant, but our choices can cloud our hearts from receiving its warmth. In this devotional, we explore this real...

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Finding God in Failure: Why Falling Down Is Sometimes the Beginning of Rising Again By Otun Stephen Gbenga | Philosopher & Theologian Life has a way of humbling us. One moment we feel strong, capable, unstoppable. The next, we find ourselves stumbling — betrayed, exhausted, broken, or simply lost. But failure is not the end. It is often the place where God meets us most intimately. Where our pride shatters, His grace shines. Where our strength falters, His power is revealed. Let’s explore how falling down can sometimes be the beginning of rising again. 1. Brokenness Is a Paradox of Strength Philosophically, we tend to see weakness as defeat. But history and Scripture tell a different story: the broken are often the ones God uses to reveal His glory. Peter denied Jesus, but through his repentance, he became a pillar of the early Church. Samson, blinded and defeated, had his greatest act of strength in surrender to God. Elijah, exhausted and despairing, heard God’s whisper ...

The Weight of Choices: How a Single Decision Can Rewrite a Destiny By Otun Stephen Gbenga | Philosopher & Theologian Life is a series of doors. Some we walk through without thinking. Some we push open with excitement. Some we regret even touching. But every door — every decision — shapes us. Some choices are small but loud. Others are big but silent, changing us quietly from the inside out. Human freedom is one of God’s greatest gifts… and one of our greatest responsibilities. Because choices build destinies . Let us explore the mystery, beauty, and danger of the decisions we make. 1. Every Choice Has a Voice We often underestimate how loudly our decisions speak. One careless word can break a friendship. One undisciplined habit can ruin a destiny. One honest apology can restore a relationship. One prayer whispered in weakness can redirect a future. You don’t need to shout to change your life — sometimes a quiet “yes” or “no” is enough. In Scripture, Esau made ...

When God Waits: Understanding Divine Patience in Human Weakness By Otun Stephen Gbenga | Philosopher & Theologian There is a mystery in God that both comforts and confuses us: He waits. He waits longer than we expect… longer than we think we deserve… sometimes longer than our hearts can understand. We often ask God to move quickly, fix instantly, and judge immediately. But the God of Scripture is not in a hurry. He is patient—deeply, frighteningly patient. And this divine patience is not weakness. It is not delay. It is not disinterest. It is mercy wrapped inside mystery. Let us explore what it really means when God waits . 1. Divine Patience Is Not Indulgence — It Is Invitation When God waits, it is never because He is approving what we are doing. Divine patience does not mean divine permission. Think of Jonah. God sent him to Nineveh, but Jonah ran. God could have struck him on the boat, but He didn’t. He waited until Jonah’s running became a prayer inside a fish....

  The God Who Restores: The Story of Manasseh and the Mercy That Finds Us Again By Otun Stephen Gbenga | Philosopher & Theologian There are stories in Scripture that comfort us, and there are stories that confront us. The life of King Manasseh does both. It is not just a tale of wickedness and repentance; it is a reminder that no human being—no matter how ruined by choices—sits outside the reach of God’s mercy. Many people quietly believe that grace is for those who “didn’t mess up too much.” They believe forgiveness is for those who wandered a little, not for those who fell flat. But the story of Manasseh pushes hard against that idea. It is the uncomfortable, almost unbelievable story of a man who did everything wrong… yet still found his way back. A King Who Crossed Every Line Manasseh wasn’t merely “a bad king.” Scripture paints him as one of the darkest rulers in Judah’s history. He: Practiced sorcery and witchcraft Built altars for idols inside the temple Led a...